March 31 2014 'Comp tries for record'

Today is the last day of March and for almost 3 months we have been recording the activities of the daily commute to Bridgetown on the SLC. Like most days in recent times, it was a slow day as is the case with Mondays. At the stop were a few known faces but none of the better known regulars like AC, Ms. Shewsbury, baby Jamilla etc..

There is normally a distinct pattern to the order of arrival of the buses on mornings. First would come the Bridgetown coming from Bayfield, then the Silver Sands, sometimes the Bridgetown coming from Well House and then the Bridgetown from Sam Lords Castle (SLC). Today only the Bayfield came followed by the SLC, our regular ride.

On the bus, there was a new driver, and among the passengers were Row2 in her usual spot and R2L who was out today. Also  observed was the Intruder and an old church friend who I see on the rare occasion. We sat in row 1 ahead of Row2. I waved at R2L who was looking a little preoccupied today and then, rousing Row2 from her kindle, said good morning and asked how was the weekend. Knowing I would get a one word reply, I also asked if she had followed  the results of the interschool sports and if she knew who had won. Of  course she had no idea, so I proceeded to tell of Springer's upset once more taking victory for girls and QC's victory in the boys division. Comp overhearing, naturally had to vet my facts for accuracy, asked who I said had won and corrected my misstatement about QC winning, it was in fact, St. Michael's. I had to communicate my correction to R2L, under  Comp's watchful gaze.

On the way some of the other regulars took their places, the Kolij twins, the security guard, julianna lookalike and Perfume. BDD was not out today as I had hoped, since I wanted to get her impression and opinion on the just ended sports meet. 

Near the Trimart supermarket corner in St. Martins, an elderly lady boarded clearly unable to stand for the duration of the long journey, so I offered her my seat. Comp had her two bags holding and upon standing she offered to hold mine. (I was always curious to find out why and what could be the contents of these two massive bags. Immediately visions comes to mind of countless plastic bags, tied in knots with balls of newspaper inside and vials of liquids to smell. Whatever the contents, the bags are stuffed to their extremity and unusually heavy). She was now under the burden of the three bags and then seeing Perfume standing with her big orange cloth bag, offered to hold that as well. So she now had 4 bags. Feeling smug about her deeds, she looks at me and asked, "looks familiar?" She was trying to beat my record of carrying the most bags. Even though it was a gallant attempt, it still fell short of the grade and she would have to try another day.

Eventually  Perfume got a seat and retook her bag from Comp.  It was interesting to notice that she was still reading 'Unspeakable' but was now far advanced in the text and in the last few chapters. Comp saw her reading the book and started this snickering laugh for what reason I do not know.  After Row2 got out, I got a seat in her place and was seated next to the Kolij twin who was reviewing her homework. I was impressed how, these sisters never waste a spare moment without keeping abreast with their schoolwork, the same for sleepy head. 

Comp soon reached her stop and exited, the others went straight to Bridgetown were we all disembarked, the old lady once again giving me thanks for giving her my seat. Of course, she was most welcomed.

Have a blessed day!! Bendiciones!!

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March 28 2014 'BDD and Comp goes BSSAC'

Today, the stop was empty with hardly any persons there. I was sincerely hoping to see some of the regulars, as I had no direct change and the smallest note was a five dollar bill. The option crossed my mind of taking a minibus, but I resisted it for obvious reasons. Comp was not going to be out today, after getting her miracle ticket she was probably packing a picnic basket to head to the stadium, so I was all alone.  The only person at the stop was the busfare bully's victim. Seeing I needed change, I resolved to try a different approach from Comp and to use what I would call busfare pooling, instead of bullying. I asked her about the bus going up and told her that  I had no change and asked if I could pay for her. Being compliant, she readily handed me her fare. By the time the bus came, another person had come to the stop and I did the same again, so I paid the fares for all and kept  the change.

On the bus, R2 was in her seat and the intruder in the seat behind her, but no other known person was recognised. I sat in our regular seats in row 1 and said hello to R2 as I passed in. By the time we got to the corner NC had called to find out if the bus was on the way. By the time it reached her stop, the seat next to me was still vacant and she sat to complete our row. I gave her an update of the events of the prior days  until we reached the Cutter's stop and BDD got in.

BDD was not in her school uniform but was dressed in jeans and a tee shirt with her Springer tie around her neck, obviously going to BSSAC.  We asked if she was going to sports and if she was a competitor and she said no, her sport was volleyball, but was going to support her school. We  recommended to her that she should cheer for the correct school, that being Combermere, BDD looked at us as if we were lunatics from a mad asylum.  She said that was unthinkable, given that Springer was the champions for the last 11 years. We however reminder her that she was now surrounded by 3 Cawmerians and was outnumbered and it would be in her best interest to comply.  She noted however that 6 other Springer girls were scattered across the bus to come to her aid.  To avoid a outbreak of war, we conceded that she could cheer for Springer and that as a bonus we would also allow them to win the championship again this year. This would however be the last year  we would grant that privilege and from next year would be taking back our rightful due. BDD found this very amusing. 


Later along, I noticed that she had a insulated cup in her hand and asked if she was drinking tea.  She said yes and I expressed shock that a teenager nowadays would be drinking tea and walking about with a mug. I was then educated about modern tea drinking. NC and BDD both explained that drinking designer coffees and tea was all the modern rage. NC related how all the youngsters at her workplace would be drinking, the coffees, cappuccinos and other modern brews and BDD said that she and her friends drank teas often each week. To prove it she pulled out her Italian Coffee House prepaid card and showed it to us. In unbelief, I asked if she would spend $8 to $10 dollars for a cup of tea and she said that with the  card she would be entitled to a 5% discount and also free coffee products on special occasions like birthdays. Trying to tease her, I said that the cup was probably empty or filled with water, and just  being carried to give an impression, but she assured us that it did indeed have tea and that on weekends she and her friends would meet in town at the tea house, to lime and sip a favourite brew.  This was quite interesting and an insight into the modern habits of today's youth.


After the education on coffees and teas, NC left at her stop. At the Boatyard, BDD left with her teacup and I continued to the terminal.

I now would also get a designer tea, a peppermintcino.  

Dios te bendiga!

March 27 2014 'AC closes umbrella'

 

As I approached the stop today, it was overcast with heavy clouds. There was some rain earlier in   the  morning  and I  wondered, if given the warning that I would not be welcomed to share Comp's umbrella, if I should  not take my half-broken one. As I got to the stop, AC pulls up at the same time, and then Comp comes trotting down the sidewalk with her noisy shoes announcing her arrival. It was at this point that I noticed a beautiful rainbow arcing across the sky.

We waved at AC, and the others present and Comp then began to relate a long twisting story about her getting a ticket for BSSAC. The rain started to fall at this point and looking for shelter I noticed that AC had her umbrella open and so I moved towards her. As I got closer, she began to close the umbrella and in alarm I said 'Not you too!'. I expressed my surprised and disappointment that she would deny me the use of her umbrella and that I expected such behaviour from Comp but not her. She later apologised and explained that when she saw us moving, she assumed the bus was coming and was closing the umbrella in preparation for taking the bus. So she reopened the umbrella and we shared its cover, while the few drops fell.

Whilst under the umbrella, little Jillia and mother comes along and surprisingly, the little baby on seeing Comp, starts to wave and smile at her. Everyone is alarmed at the reaction of the baby to Comp including AC. As we began to board I tried to see if Jillia would give me a wave also, using my sweetest face and tenderest voice but without success. My charm obviously does not extend to babies.

On board, no R2 or Penny. The front row is empty on both sides  but R2L is out today.  So being ahead. I sat on the left in front of R2L, I pulled her bag to indicate I saw her and said "good to see you". Comp sits but does not notice R2L so intent on giving the final episode of her 'miracle ticket'. The story took forever to conclude, but had a happy ending so was worth the wait.

The bus was sparse and few of the regulars present, until the Hedding's corner when 'slim jeans (SJ)' got on board. She greeted Comp with a wave and a smile but surprisingly, I was not acknowledged at all. Comp observed it and postulated that it was because of the incident on Tuesday that caused this reaction.

Comp and I considered the matter for a while and then remembered the mint bag. Out came the grey (black) bag, and the distribution began, R2L was given hers and to which she commented "This is very late today", with me agreeing and  taking one. Comp was putting up the bag when I suggested that slim jeans should be offered one at this time also.  It was Comp's intention to do so at the point of her departure, but I felt it would look strange the do so, so long after the others. So she brought back out the bag, but then realised that all the mints were gone. She took a mini chocolate instead and passed it across the aisle to SJ. SJ gratefully accepted the gift and began to consume it immediately. I took the empty mint bag from Comp and calling out to SJ showed her the empty bag and remarked "we are all out of stock and need to get a refill". To which she replied "you definitely need to".

Given the opening in communication once more with SJ, the topic moved to school sports. I beckoned across the aisle and mouthed to her asking if she went to Combermere. When she finally understood, she said no, Springer, and that she would be supporting them today and tomorrow at the games. We then embarked on a session discussing the event and with me admonishing Comp when she attended, to look across the field at the coral stoned buildings on the Waterford corner to see which school she should support and give her loyalty. Being naturally contrary, she declined to do so!!

Comp soon left  and then AC and finally SJ. This time as she departed, I was given a wave and goodbye. The estrangement was apparently ended.

The last time the mint bag was empty we got a donation to replace it. The call is now out for another donation. Any kindhearted reader is invited to do so!!

Acts 20:35 (RV09)
... y tener presente las palabras del Señor Jesús, el cual dijo: Más bienaventurada cosa es dar que recibir.

Acts 20:35 (KJV)
... and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.

March 26 2014 ' the bully pays back'

At the stop today, me and AC arrived together to meet Ms Shewsbury who was already there. As I crossed the road and gave salutations to all, AC asked if I was alone today and I said so far.  I discovered that the bus had already gone up to turn around and come back down, so I called Comp to let her know that the bus would be coming soon. Seconds  later, she turned the corner and joined the group.

Whilst waiting, a Well House bus came down and Ms Shrewsbury took that. Next followed a Silver Sands bus which was boarded by that crew. At that time it started to drizzle and I had to seek shelter. Noting that comp did not have her umbrella open, I went over to AC and stood under her umbrella  requesting a shelter from the rain. We both correctly observed that Comp was unwilling to open her umbrella because she did not want to get it wet. Thank God for a considerate friend in times of need!!

While waiting, AC started to count her fare and realized that she was 25 cents short. Quickly, Comp trying to redeem herself from the umbrella episode and get out of guilt from the many incidents of bullying AC for her bus fare in the past, offered to give her the missing coins. AC made it clear that she only needed 25 cents but Comp brought out a dollar coin and offered her. Being a fair and honest person, AC insisted on returning the correct change and so gave Comp the 75 cents she had. Unsuccessful at appeasing her conscience of her despicable acts by trying to buy AC with a silver dollar, she accepted the 3 coins and grudgingly put them in her purse. I fully agreed with AC, Comp should seek confession and repentance as absolution for her heavy heart, and not resort to bribery.

On the bus, my Bush Hall driver was on the route again and the  front seats in the appointed spot were free. Comrade R2 was in her accustomed seat and we took a seat in front of her in row 1. Looking around, R2L was absent and in her place was another known face,  a person who normally drove to work but was on the bus today. We greeted warmly as I showed surprise at seeing her.  I turned to R2,  gave her a welcome and asked if she had an opportunity to check any of the sites for the free kindle books. The welcome was returned but no opportunity had been taken to look at the free offers.

On turning the corner, Comp spotted the blue beacon of aquamarine in the distance. On nearing the stop we saw NC in a crowd of 5 waiting for the arrival of the bus. She boarded with some regulars like 'fat and jolly' and  other Sea Breeze workers. Comp and I speculated about the fact that she always boarded last in the crowd and today she did the same. On entering, she took a seat in the reserved row, directly in front of Comp. She wanted to be sure that no major dispute ensued today and that she would be on hand to mediate if Comp and I had one of our customary disagreements. The right side was now complete with the regular group, and the left side had 2 of the accustomed crowd. 

The journey was rather tame, but 2 incidents stood out in my mind. One is the explanation for NC's entry into the bus in last position. When questioned by Comp she explained that it is because, when she arrives at the stop, she would board in the order of the people she found there. If she was the last to arrive she a would board last, also, she would give preference to the young, aged, pregnant etc.. This impressed me and I  attributed it the the influence of 'Waterford', Comp however disagreed, saying it could be the primary school or home influence, but I know differently.

And then as we got to Pilgrim Road an elderly man got in and stood in front of NC. Even though he was not infirmed or feeble, NC stood to offer him her seat, which he refused. This made me feel like a proud headteacher, who had instructed his wards and then later see them rise to success. To know that an ' unruly and undisciplined' bunch could be so transformed. Comp and NC performing benevolent and philanthropic acts spontaneously, really blessed my heart. She later took the heavy bags for a passenger (her friend) standing opposite her and held them until she left.

At R2's stop, for the first time she gave the group a farewell greeting. She wished all to "have a good day", to which I responded "same to you too !" and gave NC a thumbs up.

NC's progress did not however extend to the knowledge of spanish, she now professes to be an expert 'native google translate spanish speaker', and asked me 'Estoy un problema?', mispronouncing the last syllable of estoy. When Comp asked what she said and I repeated, Comp turned into 'Ms. Particular' once again.

Comp has this tendency of paying particular attention to the most irrelevant and inconsequential details. Making particular fuss to correct minute points. This occurred with NC's spanish. The discussion then continued across the aisle about the pronounciation of the word and possible meanings etc. Fearing that she would  metamorphize into a blood boiling, vengeance taker for a second day. I did not push the point.

NC left  at her stop and Comp at  hers. I continued to the terminal.

No ser un problema hoy en día, tener un día bendito!  

Don't be a problem today, have a blessed day!!

March 25 2014 'disclosure'

Today, the realization came to mind that next week might be the last travelling with Comp on the SLC. This would make a definite change to the morning commute and hence I need to consider how to address this issue.

As we got on the bus, the same Bush Hall driver was on duty again today. I greeted and told him that he was working the route very often, to which he made a reply that I did not hear clearly. Row 1 was partially occupied on both sides and Row2 was in her place, R2L was absent. Comp decided to go further in the back of the bus to row 5 left, 2 behind the door, but I decided to stay up front in the "Promised Land". It is my belief that my territory is in the first rows (1 and 2 of both sides). This position give me a comfortable view of the journey and also the placement to assist anyone in need, such as the elderly, sick or pregnant ladies, who are ignored by the uncompassionate. Also the seat by row2 was vacant and I wanted to talk to her.

So whilst Comp went to the back, I asked for an excuse and took my seat. After enquiring about how was the weekend, I decided to bring R2 up to date on the whole bus character saga. I explained to her that she has been nicknamed by us as R2, because she sits in that position always and about my self and Comp. She learned about the derivation of the name Comp (companera) from the spanish for buddy and I being companero. I told her about NC (non-Companera), R2L , Rosemary or (AC, Alternative companera) and intruder. She seemed quite intrigued by the whole naming process and I further gave her our speculation on how she shifts position from row 2 to 1. She agreed with me that if row 2 was occupied she would move to row 1. She learned that in those cases, she would be called row2.1.

As we moved through the various districts, I pointed out to her the various characters as they came on board. She saw "sleepy head" and the Kolij twins. I showed her Julianna lookalike and the place where BDD gets on board. Next was 'spa girl and at the Heddings corner, "slim jeaned student". She  got a full rundown on the main characters and took it all in stride.  To change the tone,  I introduced some Cawmere comments and then I asked her about her kindle reading and offered her my top two sites for getting free kindle books. I noted them on a slip of paper and gave to her. I don't know if she would visit them, but next time I see her, I'll be sure to ask what she thought of them.  By the time she got to her stop, surprisingly she said, 'goodbye' and left.

By this time I had BBMed NC, to find out if she was off today since I didn't see her on the bus. I had to give my seating position and an update on the latest bus news. The conversation centered on Comp's pending absence and how that would change the chronicles and who would be my next travelling buddy. 

(For Comp's eyes only)
He llegado a la conclusión y hemos acordado que no puede ser reemplazado. Como miembro fundador del equipo de autobús, usted es insustituible y todos los días va a ser considerado en alta estima.

From our conversation (NC and I) it was agreed that the chronicles will continue even if Comp is absent and the others will be incorporated into the crew. Next I heard the familiar outburst of laughter in the back of the bus and knew that had to be only one person. I sent her a text to let her know she was disturbing me to which she replied sorry.

After, R2  and Comp left, I conversed with NC until the terminal. We at least have a plan for next week.


Que Dios los bendiga!

March 24 2014 ‘the bellman'

The maternal instinct was stirred in Comp again today as little Jamilla and her mother came to the stop. Comp on seeing the pair arrive, shouts out the baby's name and as though familiar with the voice, she looks around and gives her little smile. At the stop, there also was Ms Shrewsbury and AC. The discussion was about there not being a 6.00 am bus and the possibility of having to take a minibus. A yellow minibus came, and I decided that I would not take it as I'll rather wait for the 6.30 SLC, Comp decided she would wait also. The bus came seconds later, and we happily took that instead.

While boarding the bus, AC points her fare at Comp asking her if she wants it, but Comp responds not today. I noticed that the fare included several small coins, five and one cents and  therefore concluded that the reason the fare was refused was because of the many coins. I was hoping that maybe Comp had been rehabilitated from her 'bus-fare bullying' and the refusal was a sign of this. I will have to monitor to see how long her changed behaviour lasts.

On the bus, the driver was a known Bush Hall resident, so I gave him a special greeting and then looking down the aisle, we saw comrade R2, in her usual seat, but no R2L or Penny. We took our regular seats and AC took the seat next to R2. The crew now had possession of our claimed territory, the first 2 rows, 'the promised land'. On sitting I looked back and said to AC, "now you know how to keep your bus fare", referring to having small coins to dissuade the bully's interest.

Outside the Crane Hotel, we saw a couple that we had not seen so far for the year. This rasta couple had been dubbed the lovebirds for the affection they would show to  each other at the bus stop. It was clear that the rastaman was clearly smitten with the long locked beauty who was his girlfriend. If he was not taking the bus, he would walk her to the stop and give an earsplitting smile as she boarded and left. If he was taking the bus with her, he would show his pride when sitting by her side or across the aisle watching her. It was good to see them after these many months and we believe if was a result of the missing 6 am bus, that there were seen today.

At the corner,  we saw no aquamarine, so we knew what that meant and we also saw none of the regular school friends. Today was however the day  that my training around hotels  came into use, as I took up duties as a bellman.

The first occasion was when a mother with her daughter entered the bus. The mother was holding two bags and a Business portfolio, as she was standing by the reserved seats with the poles, she was having difficulties holding the pole so I offered to take the portfolio. she handed it over and was able to get a better grip afterwards. 

 Later, Perfume got on with her customary oversized orange bag, I was willing to take that also, but she passed by and went further into the bus. Then a nurse came in wearing her colourful scrubs also with two bags. She was standing next to me and the large patent leather bag was so big, she was unsure where to put it. I beckoned to her to pass it and she placed it on my lap, on top of my laptop case. Then at Oistins Comp made me proud. A man with a withered hand and walking with a cane, got on board. He had gotten past the reserved seats without an offer of assistance, Comp called to him and offered him her seat. The man was visibly grateful for the gesture as he sat beside me. As a consequence however, Comp place her bags on the pile I was already holding, to complete the mountain of luggage. I was now sitting with five bags on me and barely able to see over the top at the way ahead. I tried to protest the addition of her bags, but it appears that everybody ignores my protest anyway, so my efforts were wasted. I was however happy that she stood for the gentleman and would like to think that something was finally rubbing off.

As the bus cleared, the mountain diminished, firstly, Comp's two bags, then the portfolio , then the nurse's oversized bag, I could now see ahead again.

It was a pleasure to be able to aid a traveller along the way. I surely know how it feels to struggle with a heavy or oversized bag on a crowded bus and I'm sure someday the favour would be returned.

Galatians 6:9 (RV09)

No nos cansemos, pues, de hacer bien; que á su tiempo segaremos, si no hubiéremos desmayado.

Galatians 6:9 (KJV)

And let us not be weary in well doing:for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

Dios te bendiga!

  

March 21 2014 'No conscience!'

‎I just witnessed two women with infants sitting in the three sitter side seats on the bus‎. The women were big and there was not enough room for a third person unless they were small (boney) like me. Up comes a big lady and tries to fit into the small space. One of the mothers is already breastfeeding a baby and everyone is uncomfortable in the tight fit.

As a boy scout, I had to do my part. I called the third person and gave her my seat. The mothers were now comfortable for about 5 minutes , until another person came and squeezed themselves between them once again. 

How do you win? Just gotta keep trying!!!

March 20 2014 - Row2 'Up and On!'

This was the day that we were able to strike up an interest and conversation with R2. It was another quiet day at the stop, with not many travellers on the road. On boarding the bus, we noticed that there were few passengers on board and that R2 was in her regular seat. So, today instead of sitting in row 1 with Comp, I moved over to row 2. Actually I did sit with Comp but looking back and seeing the vacant seat in row 2, decided to move over.

Before the move, Comp remarked to R2 that her friend,'the intruder' was absent today, to which the response was given, "it seems so". I then asked if I could sit in the seat for a minute and leaving my bag with Comp, moved back one space. I first said I had come to apologize, if by chance she had gotten the impression that I was bothering her by the offer of the mints the days before. She said "of course not", and a conversation developed.

At the Long Bay corner, no sign was seen of the familiar aquamarine, so it was assumed that NC would be absent once again. She had however played a trick on us and had changed colours to avoid early detection. Today she wore a white polo shirt and black pants. I took the colours as a sign of her contrition and forgave her, seeing she was wearing such somber colours. Comp made some remark about "which school we went too ?" (such impertinence!!), which made me ask R2 "did you go to Combermere too?"

CAUTION CAWMERE RANT AHEAD!!

I should have known that the answer to that question would have been yes. The quiet demeanour, and poise, the confidence and elegant behaviour and angelic smile all were tell-tale signs of being infused with the spirit and ethos of Waterford. I had noticed some unconscious connection from the first time she was observed on the bus, but until now was not sure what was the irresistible bond that knitted the common hearts together of all fellow Cawmerians. It now made sense, she was one of us.

END OF RANT!

After this confession, a discussion continued on all things Cawmerian. Of course, it would be out of place to disclose the contents of the conversation for uncircumcised ears, so please excuse the absence of a detailed report.

Comp was visibly uncomfortable in the presence  and surrounded by such an illustrious trio. But she can be comforted that she lived near to the school and was already blessed with the honour of having friends who attended there and being raised in such close proximity. 

I asked for my offering from the bag. I turned over the mints and new additions to the bag to Comp last night, after her disparaging remarks about my forgetfulness. I knew that her hoarding tendencies were more suited to the task anyway, so I was not too perturbed by the comments. I got a mini snickers chocolate  and R2 when offered by Comp said she ate chocolates but did not want any. NC declined saying she did not like ginger.

The remainder of the ride went smoothly,  and when my new comrade left, I saluted her with a farewell "Up and On!".

We only saw  Penny  and  the Julianna lookalike of the regulars today, but I was satisfied that the trip was well spent, and besides it's Friday!

Gracias a Dios que es viernes! (Thank God it's Friday!!)

Bendiciones!!

March 20 2014 'the ginger effect'

Today Comp absolved herself of the responsibility of the custody of the mint bag. When I tried to hand over the donated mints to her safekeeping she flatly denied to accept them and tried to pass it off as an attempt to give me the opportunity to be the benefactor. Obviously, I was able to deduce the real reason was to escape being labeled Ms. Scrooge any longer.

As we boarded the bus, we saw that there was a row 2 convocation. Both row 2s were sitting on the same side, side by side and on the left. The seat in front was vacant so we sat in row 1 left. At the Long Bay corner, again no shining beacon. This is becoming a cause of concern. At least our newest comrade would let us know of the upcoming off days but Non-C is non- compliant and we have to guess about her absences. My suggestion is a 2 day mint penalty for the infraction.

Along the Long Bay road, Comp asks for her mint. I gave one to her and passes one back to R2L, knowing however that Row2 does not like mints I hesitated as I held one in the air and said "I'm sure my friend doesn't want one", without making an actual offer. She smiled that angelic smile and said "No, I don't like mints". At least she knew that the offer was not personal but a general daily happening.

One of the Kolij twins got on board but sleepy head was absent. At the stop we passed what looked like, relatives of sleepy head, a bigger sister or mother and possible brother.  Again today BDD was also not present. 

At the Hedding's corner, slim jeaned student got on. By this time there were no seats left so she stood at the end of the reserved section beside Comp.  As normal she had her big bag and was handing it over for me to hold. This time I feigned resistance complaining that these bags are to heavy but ignoring me she places the bag on my lap. Comp joins in saying that I should be made to carry all the weight and adds her bag to the pile. This elicited smiles from all, as we enjoyed the playful banter.

Later along, we passed the St. Lawrence sisters waiting at the bus stop but as the bus was full it did not stop. It was good however to see little Jamilla back out to school.

When R2 got out at her stop, slim jeaned student took her seat. The posse was being rotated between the four front seats on the left, as she was now next to R2L. I took the opportunity this time to offer her a mint, but was careful to explain and give the following disclaimer.  The mints were ginger mints and were hot. If accepted expect a little sting as I was accepting no liability, it was to be taken at your own risk. She accepted the terms and took the mint but added that if they were too hot, I would have to take responsibility. Comp chimes in by making note that it was I who was offering the mint and she was not responsible in any way (talk of betrayal). As I inquired a little later if all was okay, she gave the confirmation that all was well, so I avoided that lawsuit.


At the Luigi's Stop, R2L got out, she informs us she would be off tomorrow and back out on Friday (hint, hint, NC!) and wishes all a good day. 

Comp breaks down in a laughing fit at a discussion on massages and then leaves at her stop, (It it sometimes really embarrassing to witness her outbursts) and then the student taps me on the shoulder as she reaches her stop to say goodbye. 

It was indeed a pleasant trip today!!


Blessings!!

March 17, 18, 19 2014 'quiet days'

Today's chronicle is to report that we have had quiet days so far this week. On mornings many of the regulars are absent and Comp has not been up to her usual antics, so there has been nothing exceptional to report.

 Monday morning we met little Jamilla and her mother at the stop. The baby seems enthused with Comp and has been giving her some of the sweetest smiles. I sense that the long buried (or maybe now arisen) maternal instinct has been stirred, so please protect your infants when she is present.

The friendships being developed are however getting stronger. Rosemary (AC) is becoming a true friend and we have been having interactions outside of the bus encounters. Bdd has moved from being hostile to using respectful titles, such as Auntie and R2L is so comfortable with us that she now says which days are her off days and when we can expect to see her.

It is now confirmed, our preferred seating is now only a matter of luck and chance. The first row right is mostly taken by row2.1 and so like the regular passengers, we have to take a seat where one is available, mainly however in the first two or three rows. For the last two days we were fortunate to spot the aquamarine as we turn the Long Bay corner, Comp no longer mistakes it for the garbage cans and is correctly identifying NC. Also, since the black plastic bag has been depleted, we have not had the mint ritual for 2 days. Today, we were only able to retrieve the remnants , so that the last three were shared with the triumvirate. 

The bus impact has also spilled off the bus. I have been telling the girls in my office of some of the occurrences on the bus and they seem truly impressed. One sees it as an example of practical Christianity and the other as a good way to make friends. Today, I was given a donation of mints by one of the girls to replenish the exhausted stock. This I will make sure to pass on to Ms. Scrooge for safekeeping and distribution. 

Finally,  Monday, an idea came to mind, which is now being investigated and developed. This project would be of great benefit to commuters leaving from Well House and will be good exposure for the chuch in the community.  We're hoping it materialises and know it will be a tangible reminder of the influence of the bus chronicles.

¡Ricas bendiciones de Dios! ( God's richest blessing!)

March 14 2014 'comp's greeting and the referee'

Today, little baby Jillia was at the stop with her mom and brother. This time she was fast asleep and escaped the antics of a wannabe mother, Comp. Ms. QOTY was there and MyM but the other regulars were absent.

On entry, we saw the expected, Row2 was again in row 1 and the intruder in the row 2 spot. It is evident that this will be the new order, and hence to avoid confusion, when Row2 is in the first row, she will be designated Row2.1. Well, today Row2.1 greeted Comp with a hello and a smile for the first time ever. I received an upward glance, but no verbal greeting. R2L was absent and also P, so none of the other regulars were there. We sat in row 4, 2 rows behind the side door. 

Along the route a few of the other known passengers got in, 2G2B2'S brother and fat and jolly. The Kolij twins got on at their stop but no sleepyhead. Julianna lookalike boarded and  then at the Cutter's stop, BDD got on. At first she was looking for a seat up front, but when she saw us in the back I beckoned to her to come and sit in the seat in front of us in row 3 by the door. Having run out of mints yesterday, I had two mini chocolates and I offered one to BDD, who was glad for the upgrade and smiled with a thank you. I was reserving the other mini chocolate for the slim jeaned student (SJS) but she was not out today. 

I was later surprised when I was consulted to be a referee in a conversation that BDD was having with a school boy she was talking to. She looked back and asked if "Samsung wasn't the best?". I understood that they were talking about cell phones and were discussing the most popular brand. I answered that "my preference was really for iphones", and then hearing the talk of blackberries added that " I have a blackberry that runs on android, so its close to the samsung" . This supported BDD's argument, so it  strengthened her case. Having gained full fledged acceptance, I now am assured that we are no longer strangers. Comp emboldened by the interaction, leans forward and asks BDD her name and is given her christian name. It was a common and popular modern  girl's name. She later got off at Oistins to get the school bus.

The remainder of the trip was as usual uneventful, with Comp relating numerous stories. I have not spoken so much in the last 5 years. I will take the weekend to rest my jaws and vocal cords. 

I am quite surprised with the experiences we've had this week on the bus. We're certainly much closer to the persons we've met than the same time last week and I believe everyone had been positively impacted. I just goes to show 'how a little, can be a lot'!

¡Tenga un buen fin de semana!

Have a good weekend!

March 13 2014 ' seating disorder'

Today, there was complete disorder in the seating arrangements on the bus. Before the bus came, a few of the regulars were there, MS, Comp and a new young woman with a toddler and a little boy. Everyone was taken with the cute features of the baby girl, who had two poofs like Mikey Mouse and a cute pink suit and socks. Comp started to wave at the baby and make all sorts of baby cooing sounds, which had me a little embarrassed and which surprisingly made the baby start to smile. I immediately started to wonder if the baby was smiling because she was in the comfort of her mother's arms or if she was laughing at comp. The baby's gaze seemed fixed on her and she would at times duck into her mother's bosom playfully hiding.

As the bus came we boarded with MS taking the lead and Comp and me following. At the farebox when MS paid her fare the paper roll broke and the driver had to stand to fix the machine. Comp at this time takes the opportunity to try to persuade the driver that as the machine was broken, we should not have to pay any fares. The driver however is not convinced by this argument and fixes the machine tape and shows how to remove the receipt without jamming the machine. Final attempts to convince the driver fail and Comp pays with the driver pulling a receipt for her.

First thing we noticed was the seating order disarray. As is the new norm, R2 is in row 1, but R2L is back out again. Comp decides to go to the back of the bus with MS and I follow. While passing I explain to R2L that we're sitting in the back today and looking a little surprised she nods. Comp sits in row 7, one ahead of MS and I decide to sit with P on the other side of the aisle. R2L visibly confused and looks back and mouths to Comp,"your sitting very far back, today".

P is also surprised, as she cannot understand why 1) We are so far back in the bus and 2) Why I'm not sitting with comp. She questions me as to why I'm sitting next to her and leaving Comp alone and suggests that I should move over to keep Comp's company. She was also listening to music and had taken off the headphones to speak to me. I assumed that she wanted to continue listening to her music undisturbed and so I moved over next to Comp. To be honest, she was looking a little dejected and miserable in the seat all alone, so I probably saved her from falling into a bout of depression.

At the corner, Comp saw the beacon of the east, miles away and said that NC/ ANC was taking the bus today. When she got in she was clearly confused  about where everybody was and sat next to R2L. On looking around and seeing us in the back, she said something to R2L and made her way to the back also. She took a seat behind me and next to MS.

When the black plastic bag was opened,  ANC  and I both got our mints. I asked for one for R2L , which I had to get up and deliver to the front of the bus and  I offered one to P who accepted. Comp took hers and proclaimed that the bag was getting low. 

At the Cutter's stop, BDD got on board and was also a victim of the disarray, She looked around and not seeing the crew, took a seat in row 1 in front of R2L. It was amazing that in getting in and seeing the familiar R2L in the seat she waved and smiled warmly. Being informed that we were in the back, she afterwards looked back and gave us a smile and wave also.

At the Hedding's corner, we saw the student in the tight jeans get on board and take her seat in the reserved seats.  She too obviously missed the crew, but a little later hears the voices in the back and looks in our direction. On seeing the gang in the back she waves and says a hello to everyone.

It was indeed  a good feeling to know that all the regulars and members on the mint gang, were looking for us today, when we were not in our regular places. It was also heartening to know that on exiting they took time to say goodbye as they left.

When P left, she gave a wink, as she made her way to the door. When R2L left she gave a wave and a 'have a good day'. I replied with a 'same to you'. And as ANC was about to leave, I reminded her that BDD was still in the bus and that she should tell her goodbye. So, as NC stepped out the bus she waved to BDD from outside the bus. I couldn't see the response , but I'm sure that the gesture was returned. Comp then decides that BDD should not be deprived her mint and went back into the black bag to get one. As she was nearing her stop, she went to the door and handed one to BDD still sitting in her seat. 

So today, even amidst the chaos, contact was still made with all. The only one excluded was  the tight jeaned student, who will have to get a double share on the next occasion.

Then God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light.God saw that the light was good, Gen 1:3-4

In the same way, let your light shine before men, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven. Mat 5:16

Tener un buen día!

March 12 2014 ' the exchange bureau'

Today, there was a slight drizzle before the arrival of the bus. At the stop when I arrived was Comp, Ms. Shewsbury (MS), BFB's victim and several others. I approached and asked Ms. Shewsbury if she was okay and if she had any recent problems with the BFB. She said all was well, to which Comp gave a snide smile. Then to my surprise as the bus drew near, I saw she and the 'victim'  take their money and hand it to the young man standing at the stop. I remarked that the bus fare bullying was spreading, and MS suggested that from now on, she was asking for a commission,   but now, there was a significant difference.

These persons were willingly passing their money over, there was no terror and fear in their eyes and from their actions they seemed to have had prior knowledge of what to do. I suspected  that the man asked them beforehand to give him the fares, so he would pay for them, and they were willing to cooperate. My only wish is that my friend (Comp) was observing, noticing and taking notes, so that she would be able to amend her ways. 

On board, the confusion again with the seats. Row2  was in row 1, who gave a good morning with her eyes and bright smile,  and  R2L was present in her place. P was also in her seat in the back. We sat in row 1L, in front of R2L whom we welcomed warmly.

The journey was uneventful and quiet, the only significant activity was my final failed attempt to give R2 a mint. As the black bag came out, I asked R2L if she wanted one and she accepted  and me and comp had ours. I asked R2 if she would accept one today and she politely declined, with that graceful smile again, saying that she doesn't eat mints. I finally accepted  my failure, and have resolved not to be a bother in the future.

The school girl  with  the incident of the old man and the bag got in, and a little later the Julianna lookalike and Perfume. At the Rock Hall stop at the end of the runway, a pregnant lady got on board. She stood in front of the reserved seats waiting for someone to give way, but no one moved. I was just about to offer mine, when a senior gentleman sitting there volunteered to stand up. This started a murmur in the bus, started by R2L. The reason, the pregnant woman was standing and waiting in front of the school girl who was sitting in the seat and refused to move. It appeared that the thought never crossed her mind that she should give way, and it was eventually after a little delay and no movement, that the senior stood. The young girl was decried as uncaring and her actions shameful. It certainly did not reflect well on her image and that of the school.

With that incident behind us we progressed gradually, talking from topic to topic until we all departed at our stops.

PS  118.24

Éste es el día que hizo Jehová; ¡nos gozaremos y alegraremos en él! 

This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it. 

March 11 2014 'the absent bus posee and ANC"

Today, there was a noticeable absence of the usual bus crew. At the bus stop most of  the regulars that took the SLC were absent. AC, Ms. Shewsbury, Ideal Restaurant, YCM2PC and the 'BFB's (Busfare Bully) newest victim' were missing today. Ms. QOTY was at the stop but got a ride before the bus came. Only the young married couple , marido y mujer (MyM) was present today.

Comp came dressed casually in her baby green outfit and on inquiry as to why the change in the dress code explained that today she was going to cricket. I was given my banana at the stop, (by the way, Thank You!), I believe in an attempt to end the food distribution on the public transport system.  And as the bus came, we saw that the absenteeism extended further than was expected. Row2 was displaced again and was once more in row 1 and the intruder had again taken up position in the second row in her usual spot. R2L was also absent and as I glanced to the back of the bus Penny was also missing.

At the Long Bay corner, the beacon of the east was seen shining brightly in her aquamarine from miles away. NC entered at her stop, and took a position in row 2, the usual place taken by R2L. The market hawker, again brought out the bag, first the banana for NC, then the black plastic bag with the mints. I was given my mint, NC was given her mint and Comp took hers. I believe I saw her counting to see how many was left as any good scrooge would do. I was determined to see if Row2 would accept, so I reached across the aisle and as politely and sincerely as I could muster said, "Excuse me, can I offer you a mint?". I was confident that after 4 days of mint distribution in her sight that she would accept. But I was sadly disappointed. Very politely and gracefully she said in royal tones , "No thank you!" And I cowered back to an upright position in my seat, very distraught. It was a repeat of the Great Disappointment of 1844!!

Another blow came when, NC announced that she had received 2 tickets to the cricket match at Kensington today. She was hoping to leave a little earlier to take in the match and wanted to know who would want the other ticket. As a matter of fact, the cricket talk came up when I asked if she was going with me to the Frank Collymore Hall to the Poetry and Spoken Word event this evening. But cricket took the spotlight and now, I was dropped for a game of cricket. I called the Chocolate darkie (CD) to see if she wanted to attend (as a fanatical cricket fan) and soon NC and CD were planning to attend the match. So the 3 musketeers would be off the the match, Comp, NC and CD. I would go the the FCH and listen to poetry.

The last blow (how much can one take!!) was when in discussion, I predicted the exit spot of one of the regulars, Julianna lookalike.  I firstly predicted that, the exit would be at the Flash N Bar, then remembering quickly the I made minor mistake, revised it to the Super Center stop in Oistins. This brought into question my success ratio for such predictions. I estimated that I am correct almost 65 - 70% of the time. Comp burst out in her trademark laugh and saying, I must be  crazy!, that the rate is much lower. This started a debate with NC saying it must be around 40% and Comp giving a score of 50%.  This was very distressing to me and just proves the point that 'a prophet is without honour in his own country'. To further give evidence to my claim, I have correctly identified the exact location of the workplace of the same person. This will be proven later and end the debate once and for all.

There was no BDD today. An interesting development is the promotion of NC to the status of Auntie by BDD. Apparently yesterday on leaving the bus, BDD said to NC "Thanks Auntie!", to which NC replied, "You have yourself a great day now hear!" This confirms the change in the relationship with BDD and in honour of this, NC will henceforth be known a ANC, Auntie NC. The highest honour than can be bestowed by the bus crew.

Today, one of the St. Lawrence sisters turned up. The oldest sister of Jamirah got of board. Immediately there was rapid questions by NC, (sorry ANC)  and Comp about "Where were the other sisters and was Jamirah sick?  (Who was acting like the Old lady Inquisitor today?). The sister explained that she was the only one out today and that Jamirah was fine and not sick. This started the gestapo machinery running and the speculation began as to the reason for the missing sisters.

NC got out at her stop, Comp a little later at her's and me, at the terminal.

I will make it to the office and begin to practise my poetry.

Bendiciones!!

March 10 2014 'the mint wrappers'

I barely got the bus today, I was late getting out the door and as I stepped out of the garage, I saw the bus already at the stop and Comp sitting at the window. I rushed running to the stop and it appears that she told the driver someone was coming.  I just managed to get on board, fidgeting to find the 2 coins to pay the fare.

First thing I noticed, the seating arrangement was all mixed up. Row2 was in the 1st row, next to Comp, and the 'intruder' was in row 2 by the window. On the other side, Row2 left (R2L) was in her regular place and the seat next to her empty. So, I took that seat, asking politely, "Can I sit here?. I was so rushed, I didn't have time to look to see if AC, Ms. Shewsbury or Penny was on the bus today. R2L asked "if I had slept late" or something similar and I explained that I was caught up in some preparations and the time just got away. 

By the time we got to The Long Bay corner, Comp looks over the back of the seat and mouths " I can see!". This was a strange statement, because everyone knows that she can see, albeit with  limited vision. So I assumed she meant something else and asked "Do you mean blue?" To which she replied , "Yes". This was understood to mean that from her position , she could see the blue (aquamarine) uniform of NC, two stops away. NC when on board, sitting in row 1 left ahead of me, held out her hand in the usual position. This was understood by Comp, who opened her bag and brought out two bananas which were passed across the aisle.  I waited to see if the mint ritual would follow, but the bag was shut.

At the Cutter's Stop, BDD got in. Today, there was with  a bright beeming smile with a twinkle in the eyes as she saw the crew and greeted everyone. She 'folded her skirt' and took her seat in the reserved section ahead of Comp. It was also comforting to see that as a old man got in along the way, BDD stood for the old man and gave up her seat. She stood beside NC who held her bag for her. Indeed it was an example "the lion and the lamb lying down together."

Now that everyone was in place, I felt that the mints, should come out. I remarked to NC that I hadn't yet seen the bag plastic bag for the day, and everyone agreed included BDD and R2L.   I therefore reached across the aisle and said "Excuse me please, the black plastic bag!" Comp seemed to be grudgingly wiling to bring out the mints, so I had to repeat. She gave a mint to BDD, and NC two, (one for me). I offered mine to R2L who accepted it and then had to do the "excuse me please!"  routine again to get another mint. To my surprise like Ebenezer Scrooge, Comp looks over the back of the seat and wants to know why, I wanted another mint. Imagine I had to explain that I gave mine away, before she slowly opens the bag and offers another.

(By the way, I was appalled that all this mint passing was done, in front of, behind and around Row2 and none was offered her. I am giving notice now, to  Ms.Ebenezer Scrooge, that Row2 is to be included in the  future!)

Next the wrapper reading ceremony began, I checked mine and read my message, it said  " Say you'll be mine", R2L checked her's it said "I want you", BDD had to go into her pocket to find her wrapper, which said " You inspire me!". I asked NC about her's and she reported what it said but I've forgotten the message. Now that the mint ritual and wrapper ritual was completed, BDD and R2L are officially part of the bus crew, they have passed the initiation ceremony.  To confirm their membership, they actively participated in the discussion that followed. The bus ahead had a billboard at the back with a picture of Admiral Nelson and Telia Hinds advertising CBC. I reached forward and told NC, "Admiral is on the bus in front". Looking into the bus and not seeing Admiral she said "I don't see him". So I explained, on the back of the bus. At this everybody joined in , R2L saying I should have said 'on the back' and not 'on the bus'. BDD saying 'on the billboard'  and everyone correcting the best way to make the statement. It was indeed good to see all participating. Poor Comp was on the other side, away from all the action.

 At the Foul Bay stop, Perfume got on, (Juliana was absent).  I realised that she took her usual position and was standing today next to Row2. Comp took up her girl guide duties and offered to hold the bag. She continued in this posture  until Row2 exited and Perfume took her seat next to Comp. I remarked to NC, that she was still reading the same book, and doing so I happened to accidentally notice that the reading had progressed to chapter 29.

When we reached Oistin's, BDD got out, she told everyone in turn she was leaving. As she was about to get out I said to her "Be an inspiration today", mimicking the wrapper. She smiled sweetly and left, I took that as a yes, she would try to be.

At the  Luigi's sign, R2L left and wished everyone an 'good day',  as did Penny. As R2L left she called a primary school girl to take her seat. Not recognizing the uniform, I asked the girl which school she went to, she answered Charles F Broomes. I inquired if it was an all-girls school and a conversation ensued. As I was asking questions, NC leaned over to Comp and whispered that the 'Inquisitor' was on board the bus, refering to me. (For that story, follow the link here). I had an interesting conversation with the young girl until I got to town. By the time Comp was getting out, the little girl was teaching me sign language.  Comp wanted to know if  was teaching colours, but I reassured her that I was a student today and not a teacher.

My little friend, gave me an education, I learned the signs for Class 2 (her class at  school), a tree, the number 3 and a few letters, c and d. I found out about songs sung by Justin Beiber, Rihanna and Miley Cyrus and I discovered that she wanted to grow up and become an entertainer making lots of money. But what surprised me the most, was when she asked me, if the people sitting around me were my friends. I told her that R2L, NC and Comp on the other side of the aisle were my friends. Obviously, she was observing what was happening in the bus, and noticed that we were all interacting together. As we continued until the bus stand, she finally asked me, if she was one of my friends too. I assured her yes, as she left.  

I was indeed an interesting trip!! I looks like we will need a bigger bag of mints as we let the warmth spread and embark on another chronicle.

Que Dios los bendiga hoy!

March 7 2014 -'the deadly wound healed'

At the stop this morning, all the victims of the yesterday's bullying were present. In anticipation of the customary action, they were all ready to surrender their fares, except me, I was determined not to let it happen again and to stand up. I remarked to  AC  that we must report this behavior to Ronald Jones as the Minister of Education championing the eradication of bullying, but she felt that stronger measures need to be taken and the police called. We all agreed that  that would be an extreme measure , and that some form of counselling would suffice for now.

The driver today was the same as yesterday and once more he was very warm in his greetings as we entered. Row2 was absent but 'row2 left' was there today so I opted to sit by her instead of the usual place in row 1 with Comp. I took the opportunity to introduce myself to 'row2 left' as a friend of a friend, and I discussed with her about her daughter coming over for lunch and how pleasant and respectful she was. She confirmed she heard that compliment often.

At the Long Bay corner, aqua marine was the first sight noticed. There was no mistaking  about who or what that was, and I said to 'row2 left' that her friend was about to get on board. As predicted at the next 2 stops, NC entered and whispered something to the driver, who began his ear to ear smiling again.

As Carmeta Fraser is famous for making popular,'food comes first', that was the first order of the day. Comp served her daily banana from the black plastic bag, and then the new' mint ritual'. NC got her mint and collected mine, but somehow the mint didn't get to me I had to demand it be passed over to collect my due. I asked row2 if she wanted one but she declined. 

Sleepy head was back out today and  for the first time I noticed the full length of her hair, which reached right down to her waist, maybe Rapunzel would be a better description. She however did not take her regular seat in front of the first row and went straight down to the back of the bus.(I believe that NC put her off, in her new promoted position.)

At the Cutter's stop, BDD got on. Today was magical, BDD gave Comp and NC a beeming smile with glowing eyes and audibly said "good morning" and also greeted me and 'row2 left'. I could see NC nudging Comp to open the black plastic bag, and she collected a mint for BDD. About a minute later, she reached across the aisle and without saying a word passed a mint in BDD's direction. The mint was taken with a "Thank You" and I heard the sound of the wrapper rustling as she  ate it immediately. It was amazing the change in personality. I reached over and said to NC " the deadly wound has been healed" and she agreed but added "by a mint". This was partly true, the mint was only the vehicle, the true cause was kindness.

It was a light day for commuters and the bus was not full, however I noticed a difference. Instead of the quiet and silence, broken by the sounds of the traffic passing by. Today, I heard the voices of people interacting. In the back of the bus, I could make out the voices of Alt Comp and Ms Shrewsbury in conversation, and to my right Comp and NC talking with the occasional trademark outburst of laughter. The bus was changing and the posee was adding life to its cold and unconscious body.

At Oistins, BDD exited and said goodbye to everybody including a 'royal wave' to NC and Comp. ¡Ay, caramba!  

At the Luigi sign stop, 'Row2 left' got out with 'Have a nice day!

At Rockley NC got out with a 'goodbye'.

At Hastings Towers Comp got out with a 'Hear ya later!'

At the  BLP office AC got with a 'Have a good day!'

At the terminal , I got out.

It must be a good day, everybody keeps saying so!!!!

¡Que tengas un excelente día!

March 6 2014 'the mints'

Today was a breakthrough day on the bus. I learned that the lady I sat next to yesterday (row 2 left) was the neighbor of a good friend. It was my intention if I saw her today, to speak to her, as I knew her daughter from coming to lunch at my home.

At the stop, the 'bus fare bully' emerged again. Comp commandeered the fare from 4 others and paid for 5 as she entered the bus. Alt Comp, Ms. Shewsbury, another regular and myself (unwillingly in my case) were the victims on this occasion. The bus driver noting that she was paying for the large group remarked with a smile "you have a lot of money today", this driver was also known to Comp.(she seems to know a lot of bus drivers). On board, row 2 was sitting on the other side of the aisle and of course Penny in her usual spot, Ms Shrewsbury and Alt. Comp sat together as expected.

By the time we turned the Long Bay corner we saw the aqua marine of NC, 3 stops away. This time not making any mistakes Comp was able to identify the person correctly. When she boarded and sat opposite me in the first row,  I demanded that she be given a mint and banana as I was offered at the bus stop by comp.  So stretching across the aisle she was given her banana and mint. She had read how 3 days before, mints were also distributed and demanded one for the time missed. She remarked how the bus driver was very pleasant and was smiling on her entry and that he should also be given a mint.

Today, we missed the sleepy head, but the Kolij twins were present. At the Cutter's stop , BDD boarded and and sat in front of us in the reserved seats, and at the Heddings entry, the Student in skinny jeans boarded. She remembered our interactions from the previous days and greeted us warmly. I informed her that Comp was distributing mints again and asked if she wanted one. She accepted smiling and I offered one to BDD who accepted as well.  I could see that BDD was taken off guard by the offer, and was a little apprehensive about these strange people who are always talking and laughing on the bus. But she relaxed afterwards and seemed more at ease in our company. As we talked from topic to topic she would take in a word here and there but was not as hostile in her glances as on previous occasions. 

At one point, the conversation shifted to the difference between braided hair and weaves. On seeing the hair style of the student  I asked if weaves felt heavy to carry on the head. Comp  first corrected  the point that the girl's hairstyle was a braid and not a weave and I then correctly asserted that a weave  from my knowledge, was applied by "string tied to the root of the hair'.

This started a big debate. Comp suggesting that I was wrong and that glues were used and not string. I asked NC for her comment and she agreed with me that , a thread was used to knit the hair in place, which was essentially what I was saying.  To get another opinion, I asked the student her opinion on the matter. I explained first, how the discussion started because of her hairstyle and asked about the process of weaving. She concurred with NC about the knitting with thread, which essentially settled the argument.  Comp maintained the point that string was the wrong term and that a thread was more accurate.  I gave up, same difference.

By this time NC had reached her stop and on the way out, said she was going to give her mint to the driver. I was shocked when she went to the front of the bus and stopped by the driver and gave him something, while whispering. I then noticed a big smile on the driver's face as he started again on his journey. As this point the student remarked that at this rate we will soon be giving mints to the entire bus.

This really opened the door for further conversation, I asked if she was a UWI student and she said no and where she was studying and what subject. I remarked that I knew the place and that my wife was a part-time tutor at the same Institute. We continued and I spoke about my working in a related field etc.. I felt we left as friends as she got off at the stop and said goodbye.

The point is , we were successfully able to  impact 6 lives today by a simple mint and bus fare 'bullying'.  The BDD  and college student are now friends because of a mint and the discussion about a weave, and the bus driver continued his journey with a smile on his face.

To me the unorthodox contact we make, is impacting the persons on the bus. 

As my theory goes, light give both heat and warmth, light is seen but warmth is felt. Warmth is more personal in its application, we can connect in both ways, but I think warmth is more impactful, because it cannot be avoided.

!Dios te bendiga!